Rahsia perkahwinan

Besarnya pahala bagi wanita yang berkahwin. Tidak perlu bersusah-payah untuk keluar rumah seperti kaum lelaki atau berslogan seperti kebanyakan wanita hari ini. Hanya dengan duduk di rumah sebagai seorang isteri dan ibu sudah memperolehi pahala yang banyak. Kalau suami redha dengan perlakuan seorang isteri itu maka akan terus masuk syurga tanpa melalui kesukaran

sabda Rasulullah: "Sekiranya seorang wanita dapat melakukan empat perkara iaitu sembahyang lima waktu, puasa di bulan Ramadhan, menjaga maruah dan taat kepada suami maka masuklah syurga mana-mana yang ia kehendaki."

Berkahwin bukan alasan menjadi susah sebaliknya rezeki lebih murah

"Kecantikan seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian yang dikenakannya, susuk yang ia tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir rambutnya.Kecantikan seorang wanita harus dilihat dari matanya, kerana itulah pintu hatinya, tempat dimana cinta itu ada." firman Allah

MANFAAT BERZIKIR

MANFAAT BERZIKIR
$ Berzikir mengusir dan menghancurkan setan
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah redha kepada yang berzikir
$ Berzikir menghilangkan kerisauan hati
$ Berzikir mendatangkan rasa senang di dalam hati
$ Berzikir meningkatkan potensi hati dan badan
$ Berzikir menambah cahaya pada wajah dan hati
$ Berzikir mandatangkan rezeki
$ Berzikir menambah wibawa pada peribadi yang gemar berzikir
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah cinta kepada yang selalu berzikir
$ Berzikir meningkatkan takarub kepada Tuhanya
$ Berzikir menambah rasa mawas diri sampai ia dapat masuk ke pintu
ihsan,sehingga ia dapat menyembah Allah dengan perasaan seolah-olah ia
sedang melihatNya.
$ Berzikir menambah rasa kembali kepada Allah
$ Berzikir membuka selebar-lebarnya pintu-pintu ma.rifat
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah mengingat yang berzikir
$ Berzikir menghidupkan hati seseorang
$ Berzikir memberi makan kepada hati dan roh
$ Berzikir menambah kebersihan hati
$ Berzikir menggugurkan dosa-dosa
$ Berzikir menghilangkan rasa sepi
$ Berzikir menyelamatkan seorang dari siksa Allah
$ Berzikir menyebabkan turunnya ketenangan dan rahmat
$ Berzikir mendatangkan para malaikat di majlis-majlis zikir
$ Berzikir memberi rasa bahagia kepada yang berzikir
$ Berzikir memberi keamanan pada seorang di hari kiamat
$ Berzikir mendapat kurnia Allah yang lebih besar daripada kurnia yang
diberikan kepada orang-orang yang meminta
$ Berzikir merupakan ibadah yang paling ringan dan paling utama
$ Berzikir menambah tanaman di surga
$ Berzikir mendatangkan berbagai keutamaan bagi pelakunya
$ Berzikir menghindarkan seseorang itu daripada lupa yang dapat membawa
kesengsaraan di dunia dan di akhirat
$ Berzikir memberi cahaya bagi pelakunya ketika di dunia dan ketika di
dalam kuburnya.
$ Berzikir membangunkan hati daripada lalai
$ Berzikir membuahkan pengetahuan .pengetahuan yang berguna
$ Berzikir menyebabkan kebersamaan antara pelakunya dengan Tuhanya.
$ Berzikir menyamai dengan membebaskan kaum budak dan menafkahkan
harta.
$ Berzikir merupakan puncak syukur kepada Allah.
$ Berzikir melunakkan kekerasan hati
$ Berzikir mendatangkan anugerah dan mencegah malapetaka
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah dan para malaikatNya berselawat atas
pelakunya.
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah membanggakan pelakunya di depan malaikat
$ Seorang yang gemar berzikir dapat masuk surga sambil ketawa
$ Berzikir memberi potensi untuk taat
$ Berzikir memberi potensi dan kemahuan keras
$ Gedung-gedung di surga terus dibangun selama seorang itu masih berzikir
$ Berzikir menyebabkan para malaikat memohonkan ampun bagi pelakunya
$ Berzikir menyebabkan gunung-gunung dan lembah-lembah bergembira
$ Memperbanyak zikir menyebabkan terjauh daripada sifat munafik
$ Berzikir menyebabkan rasa lazat di hati pelakunya, kerana itu majlis-majlis
zikir disebut kebun-kebun surga
$ Berzikir di jalan di rumah di waktu bepergian maupun di waktu menetap
akan menjadi saksi bagi pelakunya di hari kiamat
$ Pelaku zikir diberi wajah yang cerah ketika di dunia dan diberi cahaya
ketika di akhirat
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah mengakui keimanan seorang hanba
$ Berzikir menyebabkan seorang mendapat keuntungan berlimpah-limpah
$ Berzikir di waktu senang menyebabkan Allah memperhatikan pelakunya di
kala susah
$ Berzikir menyembuhkan hati yang sakit

Pesan Nabi sebelum tidur

SEBELUM Tidur

Perkara Sebelum Tidur( Tafsir Haqqi )

Rasulullah berpesan kepada Aisyah ra : "Ya Aisyah jangan engkau tidur
sebelum melakukan empat perkara, yaitu :
1. Sebelum khatam Al Qur'an,
2. Sebelum membuat para nabi memberimu syafaat di hari akhir,
3. Sebelum para muslim meridloi kamu,
4. Sebelum kau laksanakan haji dan umroh....

"Bertanya Aisyah :
"Ya Rasulullah.... Bagaimana aku dapat melaksanakan empat perkara
seketika?"


Rasul tersenyum dan bersabda : "Jika engkau tidur bacalah : Al Ikhlas
tigakali seakan-akan kau mengkhatamkan Al Qur'an.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim,
Qulhualloohu ahad' Alloohushshomad' lam yalid walam yuulad' walam yakul
lahuu kufuwan ahad' ( 3 x )

Membacalah sholawat untukKu dan para nabi sebelum aku, maka kami semua
akan memberi syafaat di hari kiamat.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Alloohumma shollii 'alaa syaidinaa
Muhammad wa'alaa aalii syaidinaa Muhammad ( 3 x )

Beristighfarlah untuk para muslimin maka mereka akan meredloi kamu.
Astaghfirulloohal adziim aladzii laa ilaaha illaa huwal hayyul qoyyuum
wa atuubu ilaih ( 3 x )

Dan,perbanyaklah bertasbih, bertahmid, bertahlil, bertakbir maka
seakan-akankamu telah melaksanakan ibadah haji dan umroh"
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Subhanalloohi Walhamdulillaahi walaailaaha
illalloohu alloohu akbar(3 x )

Petua didalam Al-Quran

Tahukah anda mengamal minum secawanair teh "O" setiap pagi boleh mengawal berat badan anda. IsyaAllah jika anda mengamalkannya, berat badan anda akan berkurangan.


Al-Quran juga ada mengajar kita menjaga kesihatan spt membuat amalan spt:

1. Mandi awal pagi sebelum subuh @ sekurang kurangnya sejam sebelum matahari naik.. Air sejuk yang meresap ke dalam badan boleh mengurangkan lemak berkumpul. Kita boleh saksikan org mengamal mandi awal pagi kebanyakan badan tak gemuk.

2. Rasulullah mengamalkan minum segelas air sejuk setiap pagi. Mujarabnya InsyaAllah jauh dari penyakit... (susah nak kena sakit).

3. Waktu sembahyang subuh disunatkan kita bertafakur (iaitu sujud sekurang kurangnya seminit selepas membaca doa). Ia boleh mengelak dari sakit pening @ migrin. Ini terbukti oleh para saintis yang membuat kajian kenapa dalam sehari perlu kita sujud. Ahli-ahli sains telah menemui beberapa milimeter ruang udara dalam saluran darah di kepala yg tidak dipenuhi darah. Dengan bersujud, maka darah akan mengalir ke ruang berkenaan..

4. Dalam kitab juga ada melarang kita makan makanan darat bercampur dengan makanan laut. Nabi pernah menegah kita makan ikan bersama susu, dikhuatiri akan cepat mendapat penyakit. Ini terbukti oleh saintis yang menjumpai di manadalam badan ayam mengandungi ion (+) manakala dalam ikan mengandungi ion (-). Jika dalam suapan ayam bercampur dengan ikan maka terjadi tindakan balas biokimia yng terhasil yg boleh merosakkan usus kita.

5. Nabi juga mengajar kita makan dengan tangan dan bila habis hendaklah menjilat jari. Begitu juga ahli saintis telah menjumpa bahawa enzime banyak terkandung di celah jari jari, iaitu 10 kali ganda terdapat dalam air liur. (enzime sejenis alat percerna makanan, tanpanya makanan tidak hadam)

Sabda Nabi, ilmu itu milik Tuhan, barang siapa menyebarkan ilmu demi kebaikan, InsyaAllah Tuhan akan menggandakan 10 kali kepadanya.

KEAJAIBAN ALLAH

Assalam Mu'alaikum Wbrth! Dan Salam Sejahtera! Sahabat2 semua yang Islam danjuga yang Bukan Islam... bacalah Email ini dari sahabat yg menetap di US:

"Seorang doktor di Amerika Syarikat telah memeluk Islam kerana beberapa keajaiban yang ditemuinya dalam penyelidikannya. Dia amat kagum dengan penemuan tersebut, sehingga tidak dapat diterima oleh akal fikiran.
Dia adalah seorang Doktor Neurologi .Setelah memeluk Islam, dia amat yakin akan perubatan secara Islam dan dengan itu telah membuka sebuah klinik yang bertemakan"Perubatan Melalui Al-Qur'an". Kajian perubatan melalui Al-Qur'an membuatkan ubat-ubatannya berteraskan apa yang terdapat di dalam Al-Qur'an. Diantara kaedah-kaedah yang digunakan termasuklah berpuasa, madu lebah, biji hitam (black seed) dan sebagainya.
Apabila ditanya bagaimana dia tertarik untuk memeluk Islam,maka doktor tersebut memberitahu bahawa semasa beliau melakukan kajian urat saraf,terdapat beberapa urat saraf di dalam otak manusia yang tidak dimasuki oleh darah . Padahal setiap inci otak manusia memerlukan darah yang cukup untuk berfungsi secara normal.Setelah membuat kajian yang memakan masa, akhirnya beliau mendapati bahawa darah tidak akan memasuki urat saraf di dalam otak manusia melainkan pada ketika seseorang itu sedang sujud semasa mengerjakan Sembahyang!!! Urat tersebut memerlukan darah hanya untuk beberapa sukatan yang tertentu sahaja.Ini bermaksud bahawa darah hanya akan memasuki urat tersebut mengikut kadarsembahyang waktu yang diwajibkan oleh Islam......
Begitulah keagungan ciptaan Allah!!! - tidak menunaikan sembahyang akan membuat otaknya tidak akan dapat menerima darah yang secukupnya untuk berfungsi secara normal!!! Oleh yang demikian, kejadian manusia ini sebenarnya adalah untuk menganuti agama Islam 'sepenuhnya' kerana sifat fitrah kejadiannya memang telah dikaitkan oleh Allah dengan agama-Nya yang indah ini."

PETUA IMAM SYAFIE

4 PERKARA UNTUK SIHAT

Empat perkara menguatkan badan
1. makan daging
2. memakai haruman
3. kerap mandi
4. berpakaian dari kapas

Empat perkara melemahkan badan
1. banyak berkelamin (bersetubuh)
2. selalu cemas
3. banyak minum air ketika makan
4. banyak makan bahan yang masam

Empat perkara menajamkan mata
1. duduk mengadap kiblat
2. bercelak sebelum tidur
3. memandang yang hijau
4. berpakaian bersih

Empat perkara merosakkan mata
1. memandang najis
2. melihat orang dibunuh
3. melihat kemaluan
4. membelakangi kiblat

>Empat perkara menajamkan fikiran
1. tidak banyak berbual kosong
2. rajin bersugi (gosok gigi)
3. bercakap dengan orang soleh
4. bergaul dengan para ulama

4 CARA TIDUR
1. TIDUR PARA NABI - Tidur terlentang sambil berfikir tentang kejadian langit dan bumi.
2. TIDUR PARA ULAMA' & AHLI IBADAH - Miring ke sebelah kanan untuk memudahkan terjaga untuk solat malam.
3. TIDUR PARA RAJA YANG HALOBA - Miring ke sebelah kiri untuk mencernakan makanan yang banyak dimakan.
4. TIDUR SYAITAN - Menelungkup/tiarap seperti tidurnya ahli neraka

Interesting information

The largest cell in the human body is the female egg and the smallest is the male sperm.

It takes the food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.

One human hair can support 3 kg (6 lb).

The average man's penis is three times the length of his thumb.

Human thighbones are stronger than concrete.

A woman's heart beats faster than a man's.

There are about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet.

Women blink twice as often as men.

The average person's skin weighs twice as much as the brain.

Your body uses 300 muscles to balance itself when you are standing still.

If saliva cannot dissolve something, you cannot taste it.

Men who read this are probably still busy checking their thumbs! LOL..!

FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER

FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER

Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A.

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner,no one
wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it
appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding
Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting
married,they'll say: 'We're in love';

I believe this is the..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life
partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not
politically correct',there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis
for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the
other ingredients are right,then the love will come. Let me say it again:
'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot
more!!!

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're seriousabout finding
and keeping a life partner.

QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important?
Let me put it this way: If you're marriedfor 20 or 30 years, that's a long
time to live with someone. Whatdo you plan to do with each other all that
time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and
more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a
marriage:(1) You can grow together, or (2) You can grow apart. 50% of the
people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to
know what you want out of life! Bottom line; marry someone who wants the
same thing.

QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this
person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of
having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'
or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine
defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express
your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure
you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.

QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch? A mensch is someone who is a refined and
sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work
on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving
themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is
always striving to be good and do the right '. So ask about your significant
other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is
character refinement.There are essentially two types of people in the
world:(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are
dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be
comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You
need to know that before walking down the aisle.

QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people? The one most important
thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we
mean the ability to give another person pleasure .Ask: Is this someone who
enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and
self- absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they
treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys,
taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people
who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can
be sure thatsomeone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you
poorly as well.

QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after
we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the
intention of trying to 'improve'them after they're married. As a colleague
of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now,
then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to
be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with
your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible
when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to
the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up
with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because
you didn't do your homework.

Another perspective...There are some people in your life that need to be
loved from adistance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go
of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative,
incompatible,not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships
around you. Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones
encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth
uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do
you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really
understand, know, orappreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect,
growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become
for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved
to the balcony of your life.

An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and
after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance,
pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or
that what you see as faults aren't really that important.

Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise
with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring
to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past
mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You
can't makes omeone love you or make someone stay.If you develop self-esteem,
spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone
else responsible for yourhappiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking
status, sex, andsecurity are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN
7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT

If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment
withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty and pain wireplace

Very interesting indeed

Article from:
July 16, 2008 12:00am
WE all accept that getting older is inevitable, and now leading clinicians have revealed the exact age when different body parts start to decline, most alarming being the brain and lungs.
French doctors have found that the quality of men's' sperm starts to deteriorate by 35, so that by the time a man is 45 a third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Here, with the help of leading clinicians, Angela Epstein tells the Daily Mail the ages when different parts of the body start to lose their battle with time.

BRAIN - Starts ageing at 20
As we get older, the number of nerve cells - or neurons - in the brain decrease. We start with around 100 billion, but in our 20s this number starts to decline. By 40, we could be losing up to 10,000 per day, affecting memory, co-ordination and brain function.

GUT - Starts ageing at 55
A healthy gut has a good balance between harmful and 'friendly' bacteria. But levels of friendly bacteria in the gut drop significantly after 55, particularly in the large intestine, says Tom MacDonald, professor of immunology at Barts And The London medical school. As a result, we suffer from poor digestion and an increased risk of gut disease. Constipation is more likely as we age, as the flow of digestive juices from the stomach, liver, pancreas and small intestine slows down.

BREASTS - Start ageing at 35
BY their mid-30s, women's breasts start losing tissue and fat, reducing size and fullness. Sagging starts properly at 40 and the areola (the area surrounding the nipple) can shrink considerably.

BLADDER - Starts ageing at 65
Loss of bladder control is more likely when you hit 65. Women are more vulnerable to bladder problems as, after the menopause, declining oestrogen levels make tissues in the urethra - the tube through which urine passes - thinner and weaker, reducing bladder support. Bladder capacity in an older adult generally is about half that of a younger person - about two cups in a 30-year-old and one cup in a 70-year-old.

LUNGS - Start ageing at 20
Lung capacity slowly starts to decrease from the age of 20. By the age of 40, some people are already experiencing breathlessness. This is partly because the muscles and the rib cage which control breathing stiffen up.

VOICE - Starts ageing at 65
Our voices become quieter and hoarser with age. The soft tissues in the voice box (larynx) weaken, affecting the pitch, loudness and quality of the voice.
A woman's voice may become huskier and lower in pitch, whereas a man's might become thinner and higher.

EYES - Start ageing at 40
Glasses are the norm for many over-40s as failing eyesight kicks in - usually long-sightedness, affecting our ability to see objects up close.

HEART - Starts ageing at 40
The heart pumps blood less effectively around the body as we get older. This is because blood vessels become less elastic, while arteries can harden or become blocked because of fatty deposits forming on the coronary arteries - caused by eating too much saturated fat. The blood supply to the heart is then reduced, resulting in painful angina. Men over 45 and women over 55 are at greater risk of a heart attack.

LIVER - Starts ageing at 70
This is the only organ in the body which seems to defy the aging process.

KIDNEYS - Starts ageing at 50
With kidneys, the number of filtering units (nephrons) that remove waste from the bloodstream starts to reduce in middle age.

PROSTATE - Starts ageing at 50
The prostate often becomes enlarged with age, leading to problems such as increased need to urinate, says Professor Roger Kirby, director of the Prostate Centre in London. This is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia and affects half of men over 50, but rarely those under 40. It occurs when the prostate absorbs large amounts of the male sex hormone testosterone, which increases the growth of cells in the prostate. A normal prostate is the size of a walnut, but the condition can increase this to the size of a tangerine.

BONES - Start ageing at 35
'Throughout our life, old bone is broken down by cells called osteoclasts and replaced by bone-building cells called osteoblasts - a process called bone turnover,' explains Robert Moots, professor of rheumatology at Aintree University Hospital in Liverpool. Children's bone growth is rapid - the skeleton takes just two years to renew itself completely. In adults, this can take ten years. Until our mid-20s, bone density is still increasing. But at 35 bone loss begins as part of the natural ageing process.

TEETH - Start ageing at 40
As we age, we produce less saliva, which washes away bacteria, so teeth and gums are more vulnerable to decay. Receding gums - when tissue is lost from gums around the teeth - is common in adults over 40.

MUSCLES - Start ageing at 30
Muscle is constantly being built up and broken down, a process which is well balanced in young adults. However, by the time we're 30, breakdown is greater than buildup, explains Professor Robert Moots. Once adults reach 40, they start to lose between 0.5 and 2 per cent of their muscle each year. Regular exercise can help prevent this.

HEARING - Starts ageing mid-50s
More than half of people over 60 lose hearing because of their age, according to the Royal National Institute for the Deaf.

SKIN - Starts ageing mid-20s
The skin starts to age naturally in your mid-20s.

TASTE AND SMELL - Start ageing at 60
We start out in life with about 10,000 taste buds scattered on the tongue. This number can halve later in life. After we turn 60, taste and smell gradually decline, partly as a result of the normal ageing process.

FERTILITY - Starts ageing at 35
Female fertility begins to decline after 35, as the number and quality of eggs in the ovaries start to fall. The lining of the womb may become thinner, making it less likely for a fertilised egg to take, and also creating an environment hostile to sperm.

HAIR - Starts ageing at 30
Male hair loss usually begins in the 30s. Hair is made in tiny pouches just under the skin's surface, known as follices. A hair normally grows from each follicle for about three years, is then shed, and a new hair grows.Most people will have some grey hair by the age of 35. When we are young, our hair is coloured by the pigments produced by cells in the hair follicle known as melanocytes.

JANGAN

Jangan terlalu susah hati dengan urusan dunia.
Akhirat itu lebih utama
dan hidup di sana lebih lama dan kekal selamanya

Jangan sengaja lewatkan solat.
Perbuatan ini Allah tidak suka.
Kalau tertidur lain cerita.

Jangan tidur selepas solat Subuh, nanti rezeki mahal(kerana berpagi-pagi itu membuka pintu berkat).

Jangan makan tanpa membaca BISMILLAH dan doa makan.
Nanti rezeki kita dikongsi syaitan.

Jangan keluar rumah tanpa niat untuk membuat kebaikan.
Takut-takut kita mati dalam perjalanan.

Jangan biarkan mata liar di perjalanan.
Nanti hati kita gelap diselaputi dosa.

Jangan menangguh taubat bila berbuat dosa kerana mati boleh datang bila-bila masa.

Jangan ego untuk meminta maaf pada ibu bapa dan sesama manusia kalau memang kita bersalah..

Jangan mengumpat sesama rakan taulan. Nanti rosak persahabatan kita hilang bahagia.

Jangan lupa bergantung kepada ALLAH dalam setiap kerja kita. Nanti kita sombong apabila berjaya. Kalau gagal kecewa pula.

Jangan bakhil untuk bersedekah.
Sedekah itu memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki kita.

Jangan banyak ketawa. Nanti mati jiwa.

Jangan biasakan berbohong, kerana ia adalah ciri-ciri munafik dan menghilangkan kasih orang kepada kita.

Jangan suka menganiaya manusia atau haiwan. Doa makhluk yang teraniaya cepat dimakbulkan ALLAH.

Jangan mempertikaikan kenapa ISLAM itu berkata JANGAN.
Sebab semuanya untuk keselamatan kita. ALLAH lebih tahu apa yang terbaik
untuk hamba ciptaanNya.

Doa untuk Teman2 ku

Doa Untuk Teman2ku

Ya Allah ... Panjangkanlah umur sahabatku. Kurniakanlah kesihatan yang baik padanya, terangi hatinya dengan nur pancaran iman. Tetapkanlah hatinya,
perluaskanlah rezekinya, dekatkanlah hatinya kepada kebaikan, jauhkanlah hatinya pada kejahatan, tunaikanlah hajatnya baik hajat dalam agama,dunia dan akh...irat .....


Ya Muhaimin ... Jika dia jatuh hati izinkanlah dia menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut pada-Mu agar tidak terjatuh dia dalam jurang cinta nafsu .... Jagalah hatinya agar tidak berpaling daripada melabuhkan hatinya pada hati-Mu. Jika dia rindu, rindukanlah dia pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalan-Mu.

Ya Allah ...
Jangan biarkan sahabatku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia kejalan-Mu.. jika kau halalkan aku merindui sahabatku, janganlah aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan daku pada cinta hakiki, rindu abadi dan kasih sejati hanya untuk-Mu.

Ya Allah ... kurniakanlah sahabatku kesenangan, ketenangan, kecemerlangan dan hidayah dari-Mu dalam menempuh cabaran serta liku-liku hidup di dunia dan di akhirat kelak ... Insya-AllahSee more

WOrDs..!

How to be happy? Just think how happy you would be if you lost everything you have right now, and then got it back again.-Frances Rodman

"Allah answers prayers in three ways: He says yes and gives you what you want, He says no and gives you something better or He says wait and gives you the best in His own time".

Four things you can't recover: 1. The stone after the throw. 2. The word after it's said. 3. The occasion after it's missed. 4. The time after it's gone.

Peringatan

SUAMI dan ISTERI ingatlah :"Mengapa mendambakan isteri sehebat Khadijah, Andai diri tidak semulia Rasulullah s.a.w? Tidak perlu isteri secantik Balqis, Andai diri tidak sehebat Sulaiman. Mengapa mengharapkan suami setampan Yusuf, Seandai kasih tak setulus Zulaikha?Tidak perlu mencari suami seteguh Ibrahim, Andai diri tidak sekuat Hajar dan Sarah"...

Words of wisdom

Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give u a baby. Give her a house, she will give u a home. Give her groceries, she will give u a meal. Give her a smile n she will give u her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit...

Watch your Words, It becomes Action. Watch your Action, it becomes Habits. Watch your Habits, it becomes your Character. Watch your Character, it becomes your Destiny!

Boy Or Girl, Pregnancy Poems

Boy Or Girl, Pregnancy Poems

Giving UP

1. To hate all roses because you got scratched with one thorn
2. To give up on your dreams because one didnt come true
3. To lose faith in prayers because one was not answered
4. To give up on your efforts because one of them failed
5. To condemn all your friends because one of them betrayed you
6. Not to believe in love because someone was unfaithful or didnt love you back
7. To throw away all your chances to be happy because you did not succeed on the first attempt
   

I hope that as you go on your way you dont give in to madness
The sure path to failure is to give up!!
It is often through failure that future success come - KEEP TRYING..!!

Girls in my circle

When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,

And then I started to become a woman.

And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,

Life would show you the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mum.

Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.

Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,

'Another , 'Let's fight together,

'Another , 'Let's walk away together.'

One friend will meet your spiritual need,

Another your shoe fetish,

Another your love for movies,

But whatever their assignment in your life,

On whatever the occasion,

On whatever the day,

Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,

Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ..

Those are your best friends

Another will be with you in your season of confusion,

Another will be your clarifier,

Another the wind beneath your wings.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman,

But for many, it's wrapped up in several..

One from 7th grade,One from high school,

Several from the college years, a couple from old jobs,

On some days your mother,

On some days your neighbour,

On others, your sisters,

And on some days, your daughters.

Thanks for being in my circle.

The Moods Of A Woman

An angel of truth and a dream of fiction,

A woman is a bundle of contradicton,

She`s afraid of a wasp, will scream at a mouse,

But will tackle stranger alone in the house.

Sour as vinegar, sweet as a rose

She`ll kiss you one minute, then turn up her nose,

She`ll win you in rage,enchant you in silk,

She`ll be stronger than brandy, milder than milk,

At times she`ll be vengeful, merry and sad,

She`ll hate you like poison, and love you like mad...

Its all good

What do you see when you look at me?
Do you see someone limited,
Or someone free
All some people can do is just look and stare
Simply because they cant see my hair
Others think I am controlled and uneducated
They think I am limited and unlimited
They are so thankful that they are not me
because they would like to remain "free"
Well free isnt exactly the word
I would have used
Decribing women who are cheated on and abused
They think that I do not have opinions and voice
They think that being hooded isnt my choice
They think that the hood makes me look caged
That my husband or dad are totally outraged
All they can do is look at me in fear
and in my eye there is a tear
not because I have been stared at
or made fun of
But because people are ignoring the one up above
On the Day Of Judgement they will be the fools
Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules
Maybe the guys wont think
Im a cutie
But at least I am filled with
more inner beauty

See I have declined from being a guy`s toy
Because I wont let myself be controlled by a boy
Real men are able to appreciate my mind
And arent busy looking at my behind
Hooded girls are the ones really
helping the muslim cause
the role that we play definitely deserves applause
I`ll be recognised because I am smart and bright
and because some people are inspired by my sight
The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility
In the back of their mind they wish they were me
We have the strength to do what`s right
Even if it means putting up a long life fight
You see we are not controlled by mini skirt and tight shirt
we are given only respect and never treated like dirt
You see we are the ones that are free and liberated
We are not the ones that are
sexually terrorised and violated
We are the ones that are free and pure
We`re free of STD `s that have no cure
So when people aske you how you feel
about the hood
Just sum it up by saying
"BABY, ITS ALL GOOD"

Family

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.
He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old
Later that day, cooking the evening meal
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown
He walked away, his little heart broken
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said
'While dealing with a stranger
common courtesy you use
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'
I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'
I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'




FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Somewhere I read & believed

You Don't Need to Explain Yourself to Anyone Becoz the Person who Likes You Don't Need it and the Person who Dislikes you Won't Believe it.

Life is too Short to Wake up in the Morning with Regrets, so Love the People who Treat you Right, Forget about the ones who don't, and Believe that Everything Happens for a Reason