Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Girls in my circle


When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,

And then I started to become a woman.

And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,

Life would show you the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mum.

Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,

'Another , 'Let's fight together,

'Another , 'Let's walk away together.'

One friend will meet your spiritual need,

Another your shoe fetish,

Another your love for movies,

But whatever their assignment in your life,

On whatever the occasion,

On whatever the day,

Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,

Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ..

Those are your best friends

Another will be with you in your season of confusion,

Another will be your clarifier,

Another the wind beneath your wings.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman,

But for many, it's wrapped up in several..

One from 7th grade,One from high school,

Several from the college years, a couple from old jobs,

On some days your mother,

On some days your neighbour,

On others, your sisters,

And on some days, your daughters.


Thanks for being in my circle.




Monday, November 24, 2008

Buat renungan

  • Tuhan yang maha baik memberi kita ikan tetapi kita harus mengail untuk mendapatkan nya demikian juga jika kamu terus menunggu waktu yang tepat, mungkin kamu tidak akan pernah mulai, mulainya sekarang dengan apa adanya. Jangan pernah fikirkan kenapa kita memilih seseorang untuk dicintai tetapi sadarilah bahawa cintalah yang memilih kita untuk mencintainya..

  • Perkahwinan memang memiliki banyak kesusahan tetapi kehidupan layang tidak memiliki kesenangan.

  • Buka mata lebar2 sebelum menikah dan biarkan mata kamu setengah terpejam sesudahnya

  • Menikahi wanita atau pria kerana kecantikkannya atau ketampanannya sama seperti membeli rumah kerana lapisan catnya.

  • Harta milik yang paling berharga bagi seorang pria di dunia ini adalah hati seorang wanita.

  • Begitu juga persabahatan, persahabatan adalah satu jiwa dalam dua raga. Persahabatan sejati layaknya kesehatan, nilainya baru kita sadari setelah kita kehilangannya.

  • Seorang sahabat adalah yang dapat mendengarkan lagu di dalam hatimu dan akan menyanyikan kembali tatkala kau lupa akan bait-baitnya. Sahabat adalah tangan tuhan untuk menjaga kita.

  • Rasa hormat tidak selalu membawa kepada persahabatan tapi jangan pernah menyesal untuk bertemu dengan orang lain tapi menyesal lah jika orang itu menyesal bertemu dengan kamu.

  • Berteman lah dengan orang yang membela kebenaran. Dialah hiasan dikala kamu senang dan perisa diwaktu kamu susah namun kamu tidak akan pernah memiliki seorang teman jika kamu mengharapkan seseorang tanpa kesalahan kerana semua manusia itu baik kalau kamu bisa melihat kebaikkannya dan menyenangkan kalau kamu bisa melihatkan keunikkannya tapi semua manusia itu akan buruk dan membosankan kalau kamu tidak bisa melihat keduanya.

  • Begitu juga kebijakan itu seperti cairan. kegunaannya terletak pada penerapan yang benar. Orang pintar bisa gagal kerana ia memikirkan terlalu banyak hal sedangkan seorang yang bodoh sering kali berhasil dengan melakukan tindakan tepat dan kebijakan sejati tidak datang dari pemikiran kita saja tetapi juga berdasarkan pada perasaandan fakta.

  • Tidak seorang pun sempurna mereka yang mahu belajar dari kesalahan adalah bijak . Menyedihkan melihat orang berkeras bahwa mereka benar meskipun terbukti salah

  • Apa ada dibelakang kita dan apa yang berada di depan kita adalah perkara kecil berbanding dengan apa yang berada di dalam kita.

  • kamu tak bisa mengubah masa lalu tetapi dapat menghancurkan masa kini dengan mengkhawatirkan masa depan bila kamu mengisi hati kamu dengan penyesalan untuk masa lalu dan kekhawatiran untuk masa depan kamu tidak memiliki hari ini untuk kamu syukuri.

  • Jika kamu berfikir tentang hari kemarin tanpa rasa penyesalan dan hari esok tanpa rasa takut berarti kamu sudah berada dijalan benar menuju sukses.
  • The Moods Of A Woman

    An angel of truth and a dream of fiction,
    A woman is a bundle of contradicton,
    She`s afraid of a wasp, will scream at a mouse,
    But will tackle stranger alone in the house.
    Sour as vinegar, sweet as a rose
    She`ll kiss you one minute, then turn up her nose,
    She`ll win you in rage,enchant you in silk,
    She`ll be stronger than brandy, milder than milk,
    At times she`ll be vengeful, merry and sad,
    She`ll hate you like poison, and love you like mad...

    Tuesday, November 18, 2008

    Pray,Pray,Pray!

    The Difference
    I got up early one morning and rushed right into the day
    I had so much to accomplish that I didnt have time to pray.
    Problems just tumbled about me and heavier came each task.
    "Why doesnt Allah help me?" I wondered.
    He answered, "You didnt ask."
    I wanted to see joy and beauty but the day toiled on gray and bleak;
    I wondered " Why Allah didnt show me?"
    He said," But you didnt seek."
    I tried to come into Allah`s presence;
    I used all the keys at the lock,
    Allah gently and lovingly chided, "My child,you didnt knock."
    I wake up early morning and paused before entering the day;
    I had so much to accomplish that I had to take time to pray...


    Take the time
    I knelt to pray but not for long
    I had too much to do
    I had to hurry and get to work
    for bills would soon be due
    so I knelt and said a hurried prayer
    and jumped up off my knees
    My muslims duty was now done
    My soul could rest at ease
    All day long I had no time
    to spread a word of cheer
    no time to speak of Allah to friends
    They`d laugh at me, I`d fear
    no time, no time , too much to do,
    That was my constant cry
    no time to give to souls in need
    but at last the time,
    The time to die
    I went before the Lord
    I came, I stood with downcast eyes
    For in his hands Allah held a book
    It was the book of life
    Allah looked into his book and said
    " Your name I cannot find
    I once was going to write it down
    but never found the time...

    Monday, November 17, 2008

    Mak and Qis to Market


    Hmmm gi pasar pun nak amik gambar..well its because this is Mak first time to the new market since its open on May 08.. Nothing much today - Monday - usually Monday, market abit quiet. Semalam kan hari minggu so many fisherman tak gi laut.. something like that ler.. so after walking around at the market, we head to NTUC under the block.. Tu lupa nak amik gambar sebab time tu ramai orang..

    Aik! Tengok tu nyonya kedai tu pun nak amik gambar..

    What a back view..!! Tak cantik betul..


    Look! Its open on my anniversary cum birthday this year.. 25th May.. gee!

    Saturday, November 15, 2008

    How To Wear Tudung











    Its all good

    What do you see when you look at me?
    Do you see someone limited,
    Or someone free
    All some people can do is just look and stare
    Simply because they cant see my hair
    Others think I am controlled and uneducated
    They think I am limited and unlimited
    They are so thankful that they are not me
    because they would like to remain "free"
    Well free isnt exactly the word
    I would have used
    Decribing women who are cheated on and abused
    They think that I do not have opinions and voice
    They think that being hooded isnt my choice
    They think that the hood makes me look caged
    That my husband or dad are totally outraged
    All they can do is look at me in fear
    and in my eye there is a tear
    not because I have been stared at
    or made fun of
    But because people are ignoring the one up above
    On the Day Of Judgement they will be the fools
    Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules
    Maybe the guys wont think
    Im a cutie
    But at least I am filled with
    more inner beauty



    See I have declined from being a guy`s toy
    Because I wont let myself be controlled by a boy
    Real men are able to appreciate my mind
    And arent busy looking at my behind
    Hooded girls are the ones really
    helping the muslim cause
    the role that we play definitely deserves applause
    I`ll be recognised because I am smart and bright
    and because some people are inspired by my sight
    The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility
    In the back of their mind they wish they were me
    We have the strength to do what`s right
    Even if it means putting up a long life fight
    You see we are not controlled by mini skirt and tight shirt
    we are given only respect and never treated like dirt
    You see we are the ones that are free and liberated
    We are not the ones that are
    sexually terrorised and violated
    We are the ones that are free and pure
    We`re free of STD `s that have no cure
    So when people aske you how you feel
    about the hood
    Just sum it up by saying
    "BABY, ITS ALL GOOD"

    Wednesday, November 12, 2008

    Pot Luck - 11Nov08

    Yesterday was the one of my happiest moment because I got to meet and gathered with my good friends. I miss them all. Its seem the time past very fast when we are having fun. I shall make another gathering as often as I can. Its sad when some cannot make it for the Pot luck event so I hope the next event more friends can turn up. I planned before the event to take a video clip of each and every one of them but due to Im over excited, I forgot all about it.. argh! Pictures.. not many - too busy listening to latest update.. Im tired now and I think Im going to bed.. cant take it anymore.. my eyes half close already, before I dozed off infront of this notebook I better sleep.. zzz zzz

    A friend is an angel
    someone that is true
    An angel I love,
    who loves me too,
    someone who cares in everything I do
    Friends, Angel
    To me thats ALL of you..

    Monday, November 10, 2008

    Thank you

    I just wanna thanked to all my friends and love ones for the present that was given to Qis on her birthday last september. Also to my dad, best friend Julie and my dearest sister in law, kak Ieta for all those lovely and beautiful dresses..! And all to those I never mentioned names, thank you very much for the gifts,toys or even sum token of money that you gave to her.. She is one lucky baby to get all those. Maybe its not much but meant alot to her. The toys is for her to play with, everytime her mummy have to do her housework or even busy watching her favourite shows. Times when Mummy or Daddy never pay attention to her at least she got all those toys to entertain her. ( Even like now, mummy busy blogging, she is also busy playing with her toys, hek hek) The dresses, when she wore, she always got praised, they said she look so cute and adorable. So she sure feel wonderful. Sometimes I even saw her looking at the mirror, smiling alone while holding her hands at her own dress. She giggled and talked to herself. I just know she loved to wear those dresses.. Thank you, thank you, thank you, to all ,for everything.!

    Saturday, November 8, 2008

    Changes

    As all of you can see, I just made a change of my blog layout and URL link. Many complained my URL is tooo loonnggg..from forbiddentofantasize and now.. Ida-Joe.. surprisingly IdaJoe.blogspot was taken and damn the person just kept it blank like that.. wasted..! Due to this changes I got to amend some links and tell everyone about this changes.
    Nama IdaJoe nie mula dari FB. Lepas tu melerek2 sampai ke blog and seterusnya my personal web blog.. so might as well satukan semua dan mulakan apa2 dari IdaJoe senang nak ingat kan..
    Ok I got a lot of work to do. so blog again next time..

    Tuesday, November 4, 2008

    Let sing with me...


    Life Is Wonderful - Jason Mraz



    It takes a crane to build a crane
    It takes two floors to make a story
    It takes an egg to make a hen
    It takes a hen to make an egg
    There is no end to what I'm saying
    It takes a thought to make a word
    And it takes some words to make an action
    It takes some work to make it work
    It takes some good to make it hurt
    It takes some bad for satisfaction
    La la la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
    Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
    Al la la la la
    It takes a night to make it dawn
    And it takes a day to make you yawn brother
    And it takes some old to make you young
    It takes some cold to know the sun
    It takes the one to have the other
    And it takes no time to fall in love
    But it takes you years to know what love is
    It takes some fears to make you trust
    It takes those tears to make it rust
    It takes the dust to have it polished
    Ha la la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
    Ah la la la la la la life is so full of
    Ah la la la la la la life is so rough
    Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
    Ah la la la la la la life is our love
    Ah la la la la la
    It takes some silence to make sound
    It takes a loss before you found it
    And it takes a road to go nowhere
    It takes a toll to make you care
    It takes a hole to make a mountain
    Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
    Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ha la la la la la life is meaningful
    Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
    Ha la la la la la life it is...so... wonderful
    It is so meaningful
    It is so wonderful
    It is meaningful
    It is wonderful
    It is meaningful
    It goes full circleWonderful
    Meaningful Full circleWonderful