MANFAAT BERZIKIR
$ Berzikir mengusir dan menghancurkan setan
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah redha kepada yang berzikir
$ Berzikir menghilangkan kerisauan hati
$ Berzikir mendatangkan rasa senang di dalam hati
$ Berzikir meningkatkan potensi hati dan badan
$ Berzikir menambah cahaya pada wajah dan hati
$ Berzikir mandatangkan rezeki
$ Berzikir menambah wibawa pada peribadi yang gemar berzikir
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah cinta kepada yang selalu berzikir
$ Berzikir meningkatkan takarub kepada Tuhanya
$ Berzikir menambah rasa mawas diri sampai ia dapat masuk ke pintu
ihsan,sehingga ia dapat menyembah Allah dengan perasaan seolah-olah ia
sedang melihatNya.
$ Berzikir menambah rasa kembali kepada Allah
$ Berzikir membuka selebar-lebarnya pintu-pintu ma.rifat
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah mengingat yang berzikir
$ Berzikir menghidupkan hati seseorang
$ Berzikir memberi makan kepada hati dan roh
$ Berzikir menambah kebersihan hati
$ Berzikir menggugurkan dosa-dosa
$ Berzikir menghilangkan rasa sepi
$ Berzikir menyelamatkan seorang dari siksa Allah
$ Berzikir menyebabkan turunnya ketenangan dan rahmat
$ Berzikir mendatangkan para malaikat di majlis-majlis zikir
$ Berzikir memberi rasa bahagia kepada yang berzikir
$ Berzikir memberi keamanan pada seorang di hari kiamat
$ Berzikir mendapat kurnia Allah yang lebih besar daripada kurnia yang
diberikan kepada orang-orang yang meminta
$ Berzikir merupakan ibadah yang paling ringan dan paling utama
$ Berzikir menambah tanaman di surga
$ Berzikir mendatangkan berbagai keutamaan bagi pelakunya
$ Berzikir menghindarkan seseorang itu daripada lupa yang dapat membawa
kesengsaraan di dunia dan di akhirat
$ Berzikir memberi cahaya bagi pelakunya ketika di dunia dan ketika di
dalam kuburnya.
$ Berzikir membangunkan hati daripada lalai
$ Berzikir membuahkan pengetahuan .pengetahuan yang berguna
$ Berzikir menyebabkan kebersamaan antara pelakunya dengan Tuhanya.
$ Berzikir menyamai dengan membebaskan kaum budak dan menafkahkan
harta.
$ Berzikir merupakan puncak syukur kepada Allah.
$ Berzikir melunakkan kekerasan hati
$ Berzikir mendatangkan anugerah dan mencegah malapetaka
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah dan para malaikatNya berselawat atas
pelakunya.
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah membanggakan pelakunya di depan malaikat
$ Seorang yang gemar berzikir dapat masuk surga sambil ketawa
$ Berzikir memberi potensi untuk taat
$ Berzikir memberi potensi dan kemahuan keras
$ Gedung-gedung di surga terus dibangun selama seorang itu masih berzikir
$ Berzikir menyebabkan para malaikat memohonkan ampun bagi pelakunya
$ Berzikir menyebabkan gunung-gunung dan lembah-lembah bergembira
$ Memperbanyak zikir menyebabkan terjauh daripada sifat munafik
$ Berzikir menyebabkan rasa lazat di hati pelakunya, kerana itu majlis-majlis
zikir disebut kebun-kebun surga
$ Berzikir di jalan di rumah di waktu bepergian maupun di waktu menetap
akan menjadi saksi bagi pelakunya di hari kiamat
$ Pelaku zikir diberi wajah yang cerah ketika di dunia dan diberi cahaya
ketika di akhirat
$ Berzikir menyebabkan Allah mengakui keimanan seorang hanba
$ Berzikir menyebabkan seorang mendapat keuntungan berlimpah-limpah
$ Berzikir di waktu senang menyebabkan Allah memperhatikan pelakunya di
kala susah
$ Berzikir menyembuhkan hati yang sakit
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Pesan Nabi sebelum tidur
SEBELUM Tidur
Perkara Sebelum Tidur( Tafsir Haqqi )
Rasulullah berpesan kepada Aisyah ra : "Ya Aisyah jangan engkau tidur
sebelum melakukan empat perkara, yaitu :
1. Sebelum khatam Al Qur'an,
2. Sebelum membuat para nabi memberimu syafaat di hari akhir,
3. Sebelum para muslim meridloi kamu,
4. Sebelum kau laksanakan haji dan umroh....
"Bertanya Aisyah :
"Ya Rasulullah.... Bagaimana aku dapat melaksanakan empat perkara
seketika?"
Rasul tersenyum dan bersabda : "Jika engkau tidur bacalah : Al Ikhlas
tigakali seakan-akan kau mengkhatamkan Al Qur'an.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim,
Qulhualloohu ahad' Alloohushshomad' lam yalid walam yuulad' walam yakul
lahuu kufuwan ahad' ( 3 x )
Membacalah sholawat untukKu dan para nabi sebelum aku, maka kami semua
akan memberi syafaat di hari kiamat.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Alloohumma shollii 'alaa syaidinaa
Muhammad wa'alaa aalii syaidinaa Muhammad ( 3 x )
Beristighfarlah untuk para muslimin maka mereka akan meredloi kamu.
Astaghfirulloohal adziim aladzii laa ilaaha illaa huwal hayyul qoyyuum
wa atuubu ilaih ( 3 x )
Dan,perbanyaklah bertasbih, bertahmid, bertahlil, bertakbir maka
seakan-akankamu telah melaksanakan ibadah haji dan umroh"
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Subhanalloohi Walhamdulillaahi walaailaaha
illalloohu alloohu akbar(3 x )
Perkara Sebelum Tidur( Tafsir Haqqi )
Rasulullah berpesan kepada Aisyah ra : "Ya Aisyah jangan engkau tidur
sebelum melakukan empat perkara, yaitu :
1. Sebelum khatam Al Qur'an,
2. Sebelum membuat para nabi memberimu syafaat di hari akhir,
3. Sebelum para muslim meridloi kamu,
4. Sebelum kau laksanakan haji dan umroh....
"Bertanya Aisyah :
"Ya Rasulullah.... Bagaimana aku dapat melaksanakan empat perkara
seketika?"
Rasul tersenyum dan bersabda : "Jika engkau tidur bacalah : Al Ikhlas
tigakali seakan-akan kau mengkhatamkan Al Qur'an.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim,
Qulhualloohu ahad' Alloohushshomad' lam yalid walam yuulad' walam yakul
lahuu kufuwan ahad' ( 3 x )
Membacalah sholawat untukKu dan para nabi sebelum aku, maka kami semua
akan memberi syafaat di hari kiamat.
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Alloohumma shollii 'alaa syaidinaa
Muhammad wa'alaa aalii syaidinaa Muhammad ( 3 x )
Beristighfarlah untuk para muslimin maka mereka akan meredloi kamu.
Astaghfirulloohal adziim aladzii laa ilaaha illaa huwal hayyul qoyyuum
wa atuubu ilaih ( 3 x )
Dan,perbanyaklah bertasbih, bertahmid, bertahlil, bertakbir maka
seakan-akankamu telah melaksanakan ibadah haji dan umroh"
Bismillaahirrohmaanirrohiim, Subhanalloohi Walhamdulillaahi walaailaaha
illalloohu alloohu akbar(3 x )
Petua didalam Al-Quran
Tahukah anda mengamal minum secawanair teh "O" setiap pagi boleh mengawal berat badan anda. IsyaAllah jika anda mengamalkannya, berat badan anda akan berkurangan.
Al-Quran juga ada mengajar kita menjaga kesihatan spt membuat amalan spt:
1. Mandi awal pagi sebelum subuh @ sekurang kurangnya sejam sebelum matahari naik.. Air sejuk yang meresap ke dalam badan boleh mengurangkan lemak berkumpul. Kita boleh saksikan org mengamal mandi awal pagi kebanyakan badan tak gemuk.
2. Rasulullah mengamalkan minum segelas air sejuk setiap pagi. Mujarabnya InsyaAllah jauh dari penyakit... (susah nak kena sakit).
3. Waktu sembahyang subuh disunatkan kita bertafakur (iaitu sujud sekurang kurangnya seminit selepas membaca doa). Ia boleh mengelak dari sakit pening @ migrin. Ini terbukti oleh para saintis yang membuat kajian kenapa dalam sehari perlu kita sujud. Ahli-ahli sains telah menemui beberapa milimeter ruang udara dalam saluran darah di kepala yg tidak dipenuhi darah. Dengan bersujud, maka darah akan mengalir ke ruang berkenaan..
4. Dalam kitab juga ada melarang kita makan makanan darat bercampur dengan makanan laut. Nabi pernah menegah kita makan ikan bersama susu, dikhuatiri akan cepat mendapat penyakit. Ini terbukti oleh saintis yang menjumpai di manadalam badan ayam mengandungi ion (+) manakala dalam ikan mengandungi ion (-). Jika dalam suapan ayam bercampur dengan ikan maka terjadi tindakan balas biokimia yng terhasil yg boleh merosakkan usus kita.
5. Nabi juga mengajar kita makan dengan tangan dan bila habis hendaklah menjilat jari. Begitu juga ahli saintis telah menjumpa bahawa enzime banyak terkandung di celah jari jari, iaitu 10 kali ganda terdapat dalam air liur. (enzime sejenis alat percerna makanan, tanpanya makanan tidak hadam)
Sabda Nabi, ilmu itu milik Tuhan, barang siapa menyebarkan ilmu demi kebaikan, InsyaAllah Tuhan akan menggandakan 10 kali kepadanya.
Al-Quran juga ada mengajar kita menjaga kesihatan spt membuat amalan spt:
1. Mandi awal pagi sebelum subuh @ sekurang kurangnya sejam sebelum matahari naik.. Air sejuk yang meresap ke dalam badan boleh mengurangkan lemak berkumpul. Kita boleh saksikan org mengamal mandi awal pagi kebanyakan badan tak gemuk.
2. Rasulullah mengamalkan minum segelas air sejuk setiap pagi. Mujarabnya InsyaAllah jauh dari penyakit... (susah nak kena sakit).
3. Waktu sembahyang subuh disunatkan kita bertafakur (iaitu sujud sekurang kurangnya seminit selepas membaca doa). Ia boleh mengelak dari sakit pening @ migrin. Ini terbukti oleh para saintis yang membuat kajian kenapa dalam sehari perlu kita sujud. Ahli-ahli sains telah menemui beberapa milimeter ruang udara dalam saluran darah di kepala yg tidak dipenuhi darah. Dengan bersujud, maka darah akan mengalir ke ruang berkenaan..
4. Dalam kitab juga ada melarang kita makan makanan darat bercampur dengan makanan laut. Nabi pernah menegah kita makan ikan bersama susu, dikhuatiri akan cepat mendapat penyakit. Ini terbukti oleh saintis yang menjumpai di manadalam badan ayam mengandungi ion (+) manakala dalam ikan mengandungi ion (-). Jika dalam suapan ayam bercampur dengan ikan maka terjadi tindakan balas biokimia yng terhasil yg boleh merosakkan usus kita.
5. Nabi juga mengajar kita makan dengan tangan dan bila habis hendaklah menjilat jari. Begitu juga ahli saintis telah menjumpa bahawa enzime banyak terkandung di celah jari jari, iaitu 10 kali ganda terdapat dalam air liur. (enzime sejenis alat percerna makanan, tanpanya makanan tidak hadam)
Sabda Nabi, ilmu itu milik Tuhan, barang siapa menyebarkan ilmu demi kebaikan, InsyaAllah Tuhan akan menggandakan 10 kali kepadanya.
KEAJAIBAN ALLAH
Assalam Mu'alaikum Wbrth! Dan Salam Sejahtera! Sahabat2 semua yang Islam danjuga yang Bukan Islam... bacalah Email ini dari sahabat yg menetap di US:
"Seorang doktor di Amerika Syarikat telah memeluk Islam kerana beberapa keajaiban yang ditemuinya dalam penyelidikannya. Dia amat kagum dengan penemuan tersebut, sehingga tidak dapat diterima oleh akal fikiran.
Dia adalah seorang Doktor Neurologi .Setelah memeluk Islam, dia amat yakin akan perubatan secara Islam dan dengan itu telah membuka sebuah klinik yang bertemakan"Perubatan Melalui Al-Qur'an". Kajian perubatan melalui Al-Qur'an membuatkan ubat-ubatannya berteraskan apa yang terdapat di dalam Al-Qur'an. Diantara kaedah-kaedah yang digunakan termasuklah berpuasa, madu lebah, biji hitam (black seed) dan sebagainya.
Apabila ditanya bagaimana dia tertarik untuk memeluk Islam,maka doktor tersebut memberitahu bahawa semasa beliau melakukan kajian urat saraf,terdapat beberapa urat saraf di dalam otak manusia yang tidak dimasuki oleh darah . Padahal setiap inci otak manusia memerlukan darah yang cukup untuk berfungsi secara normal.Setelah membuat kajian yang memakan masa, akhirnya beliau mendapati bahawa darah tidak akan memasuki urat saraf di dalam otak manusia melainkan pada ketika seseorang itu sedang sujud semasa mengerjakan Sembahyang!!! Urat tersebut memerlukan darah hanya untuk beberapa sukatan yang tertentu sahaja.Ini bermaksud bahawa darah hanya akan memasuki urat tersebut mengikut kadarsembahyang waktu yang diwajibkan oleh Islam......
Begitulah keagungan ciptaan Allah!!! - tidak menunaikan sembahyang akan membuat otaknya tidak akan dapat menerima darah yang secukupnya untuk berfungsi secara normal!!! Oleh yang demikian, kejadian manusia ini sebenarnya adalah untuk menganuti agama Islam 'sepenuhnya' kerana sifat fitrah kejadiannya memang telah dikaitkan oleh Allah dengan agama-Nya yang indah ini."
PETUA IMAM SYAFIE
4 PERKARA UNTUK SIHAT
Empat perkara menguatkan badan
1. makan daging
2. memakai haruman
3. kerap mandi
4. berpakaian dari kapas
Empat perkara melemahkan badan
1. banyak berkelamin (bersetubuh)
2. selalu cemas
3. banyak minum air ketika makan
4. banyak makan bahan yang masam
Empat perkara menajamkan mata
1. duduk mengadap kiblat
2. bercelak sebelum tidur
3. memandang yang hijau
4. berpakaian bersih
Empat perkara merosakkan mata
1. memandang najis
2. melihat orang dibunuh
3. melihat kemaluan
4. membelakangi kiblat
>Empat perkara menajamkan fikiran
1. tidak banyak berbual kosong
2. rajin bersugi (gosok gigi)
3. bercakap dengan orang soleh
4. bergaul dengan para ulama
4 CARA TIDUR
1. TIDUR PARA NABI - Tidur terlentang sambil berfikir tentang kejadian langit dan bumi.
2. TIDUR PARA ULAMA' & AHLI IBADAH - Miring ke sebelah kanan untuk memudahkan terjaga untuk solat malam.
3. TIDUR PARA RAJA YANG HALOBA - Miring ke sebelah kiri untuk mencernakan makanan yang banyak dimakan.
4. TIDUR SYAITAN - Menelungkup/tiarap seperti tidurnya ahli neraka
"Seorang doktor di Amerika Syarikat telah memeluk Islam kerana beberapa keajaiban yang ditemuinya dalam penyelidikannya. Dia amat kagum dengan penemuan tersebut, sehingga tidak dapat diterima oleh akal fikiran.
Dia adalah seorang Doktor Neurologi .Setelah memeluk Islam, dia amat yakin akan perubatan secara Islam dan dengan itu telah membuka sebuah klinik yang bertemakan"Perubatan Melalui Al-Qur'an". Kajian perubatan melalui Al-Qur'an membuatkan ubat-ubatannya berteraskan apa yang terdapat di dalam Al-Qur'an. Diantara kaedah-kaedah yang digunakan termasuklah berpuasa, madu lebah, biji hitam (black seed) dan sebagainya.
Apabila ditanya bagaimana dia tertarik untuk memeluk Islam,maka doktor tersebut memberitahu bahawa semasa beliau melakukan kajian urat saraf,terdapat beberapa urat saraf di dalam otak manusia yang tidak dimasuki oleh darah . Padahal setiap inci otak manusia memerlukan darah yang cukup untuk berfungsi secara normal.Setelah membuat kajian yang memakan masa, akhirnya beliau mendapati bahawa darah tidak akan memasuki urat saraf di dalam otak manusia melainkan pada ketika seseorang itu sedang sujud semasa mengerjakan Sembahyang!!! Urat tersebut memerlukan darah hanya untuk beberapa sukatan yang tertentu sahaja.Ini bermaksud bahawa darah hanya akan memasuki urat tersebut mengikut kadarsembahyang waktu yang diwajibkan oleh Islam......
Begitulah keagungan ciptaan Allah!!! - tidak menunaikan sembahyang akan membuat otaknya tidak akan dapat menerima darah yang secukupnya untuk berfungsi secara normal!!! Oleh yang demikian, kejadian manusia ini sebenarnya adalah untuk menganuti agama Islam 'sepenuhnya' kerana sifat fitrah kejadiannya memang telah dikaitkan oleh Allah dengan agama-Nya yang indah ini."
PETUA IMAM SYAFIE
4 PERKARA UNTUK SIHAT
Empat perkara menguatkan badan
1. makan daging
2. memakai haruman
3. kerap mandi
4. berpakaian dari kapas
Empat perkara melemahkan badan
1. banyak berkelamin (bersetubuh)
2. selalu cemas
3. banyak minum air ketika makan
4. banyak makan bahan yang masam
Empat perkara menajamkan mata
1. duduk mengadap kiblat
2. bercelak sebelum tidur
3. memandang yang hijau
4. berpakaian bersih
Empat perkara merosakkan mata
1. memandang najis
2. melihat orang dibunuh
3. melihat kemaluan
4. membelakangi kiblat
>Empat perkara menajamkan fikiran
1. tidak banyak berbual kosong
2. rajin bersugi (gosok gigi)
3. bercakap dengan orang soleh
4. bergaul dengan para ulama
4 CARA TIDUR
1. TIDUR PARA NABI - Tidur terlentang sambil berfikir tentang kejadian langit dan bumi.
2. TIDUR PARA ULAMA' & AHLI IBADAH - Miring ke sebelah kanan untuk memudahkan terjaga untuk solat malam.
3. TIDUR PARA RAJA YANG HALOBA - Miring ke sebelah kiri untuk mencernakan makanan yang banyak dimakan.
4. TIDUR SYAITAN - Menelungkup/tiarap seperti tidurnya ahli neraka
Interesting information
The largest cell in the human body is the female egg and the smallest is the male sperm.
It takes the food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.
One human hair can support 3 kg (6 lb).
The average man's penis is three times the length of his thumb.
Human thighbones are stronger than concrete.
A woman's heart beats faster than a man's.
There are about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet.
Women blink twice as often as men.
The average person's skin weighs twice as much as the brain.
Your body uses 300 muscles to balance itself when you are standing still.
If saliva cannot dissolve something, you cannot taste it.
Men who read this are probably still busy checking their thumbs! LOL..!
It takes the food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.
One human hair can support 3 kg (6 lb).
The average man's penis is three times the length of his thumb.
Human thighbones are stronger than concrete.
A woman's heart beats faster than a man's.
There are about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet.
Women blink twice as often as men.
The average person's skin weighs twice as much as the brain.
Your body uses 300 muscles to balance itself when you are standing still.
If saliva cannot dissolve something, you cannot taste it.
Men who read this are probably still busy checking their thumbs! LOL..!
FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER
FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER
Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner,no one
wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it
appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding
Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting
married,they'll say: 'We're in love';
I believe this is the..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life
partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not
politically correct',there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis
for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the
other ingredients are right,then the love will come. Let me say it again:
'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot
more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're seriousabout finding
and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important?
Let me put it this way: If you're marriedfor 20 or 30 years, that's a long
time to live with someone. Whatdo you plan to do with each other all that
time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and
more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a
marriage:(1) You can grow together, or (2) You can grow apart. 50% of the
people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to
know what you want out of life! Bottom line; marry someone who wants the
same thing.
QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this
person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of
having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'
or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine
defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express
your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure
you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch? A mensch is someone who is a refined and
sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work
on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving
themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is
always striving to be good and do the right '. So ask about your significant
other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is
character refinement.There are essentially two types of people in the
world:(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are
dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be
comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You
need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people? The one most important
thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we
mean the ability to give another person pleasure .Ask: Is this someone who
enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and
self- absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they
treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys,
taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people
who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can
be sure thatsomeone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you
poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after
we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the
intention of trying to 'improve'them after they're married. As a colleague
of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now,
then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to
be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with
your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible
when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to
the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up
with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because
you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...There are some people in your life that need to be
loved from adistance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go
of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative,
incompatible,not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships
around you. Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones
encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth
uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do
you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really
understand, know, orappreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect,
growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become
for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved
to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and
after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance,
pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or
that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise
with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring
to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past
mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You
can't makes omeone love you or make someone stay.If you develop self-esteem,
spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone
else responsible for yourhappiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking
status, sex, andsecurity are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN
7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment
withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty and pain wireplace
Golden rules for finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner,no one
wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it
appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding
Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting
married,they'll say: 'We're in love';
I believe this is the..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life
partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not
politically correct',there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis
for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the
other ingredients are right,then the love will come. Let me say it again:
'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot
more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're seriousabout finding
and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important?
Let me put it this way: If you're marriedfor 20 or 30 years, that's a long
time to live with someone. Whatdo you plan to do with each other all that
time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and
more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a
marriage:(1) You can grow together, or (2) You can grow apart. 50% of the
people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to
know what you want out of life! Bottom line; marry someone who wants the
same thing.
QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this
person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of
having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'
or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine
defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express
your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure
you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch? A mensch is someone who is a refined and
sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work
on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving
themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is
always striving to be good and do the right '. So ask about your significant
other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is
character refinement.There are essentially two types of people in the
world:(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are
dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be
comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You
need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people? The one most important
thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we
mean the ability to give another person pleasure .Ask: Is this someone who
enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and
self- absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they
treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys,
taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people
who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can
be sure thatsomeone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you
poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after
we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the
intention of trying to 'improve'them after they're married. As a colleague
of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now,
then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to
be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with
your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible
when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to
the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up
with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because
you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...There are some people in your life that need to be
loved from adistance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go
of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative,
incompatible,not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships
around you. Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones
encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth
uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do
you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really
understand, know, orappreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect,
growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become
for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved
to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and
after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance,
pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or
that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise
with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring
to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past
mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You
can't makes omeone love you or make someone stay.If you develop self-esteem,
spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone
else responsible for yourhappiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking
status, sex, andsecurity are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN
7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment
withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty and pain wireplace
Surah Al ikhlas
Keberkatan surah al-ikhlas
Ketika Memulakan Kerja
Bacalah ayat ini sebelum anda memulakan apa-apa saja kerja kerana dengan bacaan ini akan keluarlah iblis dan syaitan yang berada didalam tubuh kita dan juga di sekeliling kita, mereka akan berlari keluar umpama cacing kepanasan.
Sebelum Masuk Ke Rumah
Sebelum anda masuk rumah, bacalah surah Al-Ikhlas sebanyak 3 kali. Masuklah rumah dengan kaki kanan dan dengan membaca bismillah. Berilah salam kepada anggota rumah dan sekiranya tiada orang di rumah berilah salam kerana malaikat rumah akan menyahut. Amalkanlah bersolat kerana salam pertama (ianya wajib) yang diucapkan pada akhir solat akan membantu kita menjawab persoalan kubur. Apabila malaikat memberi salam, seorang yang jarang bersolat akan sukar menjawab salam tersebut. Tetapi bagi mereka yangkerap bersolat, amalan daripada salam yang diucap di akhir solat akan menolongnya menjawab salam malaikat itu.Ketika Sakit Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W yang bermaksud:Barangsiapa membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sewaktu sakit sehingga dia meninggal dunia, maka dia tidak akan membusuk di dalam kuburnya, akan selamat dia dari kesempitan kuburnya dan para malaikat akan membawanya dengan sayap mereka melintasi titian siratul mustaqim lalu menuju ke syurga. Demikian diterangkan dalam Tadzikaratul Qurthuby).Khatam al-Quran Rasulullah SAW pernah bertanya sebuah teka-teki kepada umatnya: Siapakah antara kamu yang dapat khatam Qur'an dalam jangka masa dua-tiga minit? Tiada seorang dari sahabatnya yang menjawab. Malah Saiyidina Ummar telah mengatakan bahawa ianya mustahil untuk mengatam Qur'an dalam begitu cepat.Kemudiannya Saiyyidina Ali mengangkat tangannya. Saiyidina Ummar bersuara kepada Saiyidina Ali bahawa Saiyidina Ali (yang sedang kecil pada waktu itu) tidak tahu apa yang dikatakannya itu. Lantas Saiyidina Ali membaca surah Al-Ikhlas tiga kali. Rasulullah SAW menjawab dengan mengatakan bahawa Saiyidina Ali betul. Membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sekali ganjarannya sama dengan membaca 10 jus kitab Al-Quran. Lalu dengan membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sebanyak tiga kali qatamlah Quran kerana ianya sama dengan membaca 30 jus Al-Quran Pahala Membacanya Berkata Ibnu Abbas r.a. bahawa Rasulullah SAW telah bersabda: Ketika saya (Rasulullah SAW) israk ke langit, maka saya telah melihat Arasy di atas 360,000 sendi dan jarak jauh antara satusendi ke satu sendi ialah 300,000 tahun perjalanan. Pada tiap-tiap sendi itu terdapat padang sahara sebanyak 12,000 dan luasnya setiap satu padang Sahara itu seluas dari timur hingga ke barat. Pada setiap padang sahara itu terdapat 80,000 malaikat yang mana kesemuanya membaca surah Al-Ikhlas. Setelah mereka selesai membaca surah tersebut maka berkata mereka: Wahai Tuhan kami,sesungguhnya pahala dari bacaan kami ini kami berikan kepada orang yang membaca surah Al-Ikhlas baik ianya lelaki mahupun perempuan. Sabda Rasulullah SAW lagi: Demi Allah yang jiwaku ditanganNya, sesungguhnya Qul Huwallahu Ahadu itu tertulis di sayap malaikat Jibrail a.s, Allahhus Somad itu tertulis di sayap malaikat Mikail a.s, Lamyalid walam yuulad tertulis pada sayap malaikat Izrail a.s, Walam yakullahu kufuwan ahadu tertulis pada sayap malaikat Israfil a.s.
Ketika Memulakan Kerja
Bacalah ayat ini sebelum anda memulakan apa-apa saja kerja kerana dengan bacaan ini akan keluarlah iblis dan syaitan yang berada didalam tubuh kita dan juga di sekeliling kita, mereka akan berlari keluar umpama cacing kepanasan.
Sebelum Masuk Ke Rumah
Sebelum anda masuk rumah, bacalah surah Al-Ikhlas sebanyak 3 kali. Masuklah rumah dengan kaki kanan dan dengan membaca bismillah. Berilah salam kepada anggota rumah dan sekiranya tiada orang di rumah berilah salam kerana malaikat rumah akan menyahut. Amalkanlah bersolat kerana salam pertama (ianya wajib) yang diucapkan pada akhir solat akan membantu kita menjawab persoalan kubur. Apabila malaikat memberi salam, seorang yang jarang bersolat akan sukar menjawab salam tersebut. Tetapi bagi mereka yangkerap bersolat, amalan daripada salam yang diucap di akhir solat akan menolongnya menjawab salam malaikat itu.Ketika Sakit Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W yang bermaksud:Barangsiapa membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sewaktu sakit sehingga dia meninggal dunia, maka dia tidak akan membusuk di dalam kuburnya, akan selamat dia dari kesempitan kuburnya dan para malaikat akan membawanya dengan sayap mereka melintasi titian siratul mustaqim lalu menuju ke syurga. Demikian diterangkan dalam Tadzikaratul Qurthuby).Khatam al-Quran Rasulullah SAW pernah bertanya sebuah teka-teki kepada umatnya: Siapakah antara kamu yang dapat khatam Qur'an dalam jangka masa dua-tiga minit? Tiada seorang dari sahabatnya yang menjawab. Malah Saiyidina Ummar telah mengatakan bahawa ianya mustahil untuk mengatam Qur'an dalam begitu cepat.Kemudiannya Saiyyidina Ali mengangkat tangannya. Saiyidina Ummar bersuara kepada Saiyidina Ali bahawa Saiyidina Ali (yang sedang kecil pada waktu itu) tidak tahu apa yang dikatakannya itu. Lantas Saiyidina Ali membaca surah Al-Ikhlas tiga kali. Rasulullah SAW menjawab dengan mengatakan bahawa Saiyidina Ali betul. Membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sekali ganjarannya sama dengan membaca 10 jus kitab Al-Quran. Lalu dengan membaca surah Al-Ikhlas sebanyak tiga kali qatamlah Quran kerana ianya sama dengan membaca 30 jus Al-Quran Pahala Membacanya Berkata Ibnu Abbas r.a. bahawa Rasulullah SAW telah bersabda: Ketika saya (Rasulullah SAW) israk ke langit, maka saya telah melihat Arasy di atas 360,000 sendi dan jarak jauh antara satusendi ke satu sendi ialah 300,000 tahun perjalanan. Pada tiap-tiap sendi itu terdapat padang sahara sebanyak 12,000 dan luasnya setiap satu padang Sahara itu seluas dari timur hingga ke barat. Pada setiap padang sahara itu terdapat 80,000 malaikat yang mana kesemuanya membaca surah Al-Ikhlas. Setelah mereka selesai membaca surah tersebut maka berkata mereka: Wahai Tuhan kami,sesungguhnya pahala dari bacaan kami ini kami berikan kepada orang yang membaca surah Al-Ikhlas baik ianya lelaki mahupun perempuan. Sabda Rasulullah SAW lagi: Demi Allah yang jiwaku ditanganNya, sesungguhnya Qul Huwallahu Ahadu itu tertulis di sayap malaikat Jibrail a.s, Allahhus Somad itu tertulis di sayap malaikat Mikail a.s, Lamyalid walam yuulad tertulis pada sayap malaikat Izrail a.s, Walam yakullahu kufuwan ahadu tertulis pada sayap malaikat Israfil a.s.
Very interesting indeed
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July 16, 2008 12:00am
WE all accept that getting older is inevitable, and now leading clinicians have revealed the exact age when different body parts start to decline, most alarming being the brain and lungs.
French doctors have found that the quality of men's' sperm starts to deteriorate by 35, so that by the time a man is 45 a third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Here, with the help of leading clinicians, Angela Epstein tells the Daily Mail the ages when different parts of the body start to lose their battle with time.
BRAIN - Starts ageing at 20
As we get older, the number of nerve cells - or neurons - in the brain decrease. We start with around 100 billion, but in our 20s this number starts to decline. By 40, we could be losing up to 10,000 per day, affecting memory, co-ordination and brain function.
GUT - Starts ageing at 55
A healthy gut has a good balance between harmful and 'friendly' bacteria. But levels of friendly bacteria in the gut drop significantly after 55, particularly in the large intestine, says Tom MacDonald, professor of immunology at Barts And The London medical school. As a result, we suffer from poor digestion and an increased risk of gut disease. Constipation is more likely as we age, as the flow of digestive juices from the stomach, liver, pancreas and small intestine slows down.
BREASTS - Start ageing at 35
BY their mid-30s, women's breasts start losing tissue and fat, reducing size and fullness. Sagging starts properly at 40 and the areola (the area surrounding the nipple) can shrink considerably.
BLADDER - Starts ageing at 65
Loss of bladder control is more likely when you hit 65. Women are more vulnerable to bladder problems as, after the menopause, declining oestrogen levels make tissues in the urethra - the tube through which urine passes - thinner and weaker, reducing bladder support. Bladder capacity in an older adult generally is about half that of a younger person - about two cups in a 30-year-old and one cup in a 70-year-old.
LUNGS - Start ageing at 20
Lung capacity slowly starts to decrease from the age of 20. By the age of 40, some people are already experiencing breathlessness. This is partly because the muscles and the rib cage which control breathing stiffen up.
VOICE - Starts ageing at 65
Our voices become quieter and hoarser with age. The soft tissues in the voice box (larynx) weaken, affecting the pitch, loudness and quality of the voice.
A woman's voice may become huskier and lower in pitch, whereas a man's might become thinner and higher.
EYES - Start ageing at 40
Glasses are the norm for many over-40s as failing eyesight kicks in - usually long-sightedness, affecting our ability to see objects up close.
HEART - Starts ageing at 40
The heart pumps blood less effectively around the body as we get older. This is because blood vessels become less elastic, while arteries can harden or become blocked because of fatty deposits forming on the coronary arteries - caused by eating too much saturated fat. The blood supply to the heart is then reduced, resulting in painful angina. Men over 45 and women over 55 are at greater risk of a heart attack.
LIVER - Starts ageing at 70
This is the only organ in the body which seems to defy the aging process.
KIDNEYS - Starts ageing at 50
With kidneys, the number of filtering units (nephrons) that remove waste from the bloodstream starts to reduce in middle age.
PROSTATE - Starts ageing at 50
The prostate often becomes enlarged with age, leading to problems such as increased need to urinate, says Professor Roger Kirby, director of the Prostate Centre in London. This is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia and affects half of men over 50, but rarely those under 40. It occurs when the prostate absorbs large amounts of the male sex hormone testosterone, which increases the growth of cells in the prostate. A normal prostate is the size of a walnut, but the condition can increase this to the size of a tangerine.
BONES - Start ageing at 35
'Throughout our life, old bone is broken down by cells called osteoclasts and replaced by bone-building cells called osteoblasts - a process called bone turnover,' explains Robert Moots, professor of rheumatology at Aintree University Hospital in Liverpool. Children's bone growth is rapid - the skeleton takes just two years to renew itself completely. In adults, this can take ten years. Until our mid-20s, bone density is still increasing. But at 35 bone loss begins as part of the natural ageing process.
TEETH - Start ageing at 40
As we age, we produce less saliva, which washes away bacteria, so teeth and gums are more vulnerable to decay. Receding gums - when tissue is lost from gums around the teeth - is common in adults over 40.
MUSCLES - Start ageing at 30
Muscle is constantly being built up and broken down, a process which is well balanced in young adults. However, by the time we're 30, breakdown is greater than buildup, explains Professor Robert Moots. Once adults reach 40, they start to lose between 0.5 and 2 per cent of their muscle each year. Regular exercise can help prevent this.
HEARING - Starts ageing mid-50s
More than half of people over 60 lose hearing because of their age, according to the Royal National Institute for the Deaf.
SKIN - Starts ageing mid-20s
The skin starts to age naturally in your mid-20s.
TASTE AND SMELL - Start ageing at 60
We start out in life with about 10,000 taste buds scattered on the tongue. This number can halve later in life. After we turn 60, taste and smell gradually decline, partly as a result of the normal ageing process.
FERTILITY - Starts ageing at 35
Female fertility begins to decline after 35, as the number and quality of eggs in the ovaries start to fall. The lining of the womb may become thinner, making it less likely for a fertilised egg to take, and also creating an environment hostile to sperm.
HAIR - Starts ageing at 30
Male hair loss usually begins in the 30s. Hair is made in tiny pouches just under the skin's surface, known as follices. A hair normally grows from each follicle for about three years, is then shed, and a new hair grows.Most people will have some grey hair by the age of 35. When we are young, our hair is coloured by the pigments produced by cells in the hair follicle known as melanocytes.
July 16, 2008 12:00am
WE all accept that getting older is inevitable, and now leading clinicians have revealed the exact age when different body parts start to decline, most alarming being the brain and lungs.
French doctors have found that the quality of men's' sperm starts to deteriorate by 35, so that by the time a man is 45 a third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Here, with the help of leading clinicians, Angela Epstein tells the Daily Mail the ages when different parts of the body start to lose their battle with time.
BRAIN - Starts ageing at 20
As we get older, the number of nerve cells - or neurons - in the brain decrease. We start with around 100 billion, but in our 20s this number starts to decline. By 40, we could be losing up to 10,000 per day, affecting memory, co-ordination and brain function.
GUT - Starts ageing at 55
A healthy gut has a good balance between harmful and 'friendly' bacteria. But levels of friendly bacteria in the gut drop significantly after 55, particularly in the large intestine, says Tom MacDonald, professor of immunology at Barts And The London medical school. As a result, we suffer from poor digestion and an increased risk of gut disease. Constipation is more likely as we age, as the flow of digestive juices from the stomach, liver, pancreas and small intestine slows down.
BREASTS - Start ageing at 35
BY their mid-30s, women's breasts start losing tissue and fat, reducing size and fullness. Sagging starts properly at 40 and the areola (the area surrounding the nipple) can shrink considerably.
BLADDER - Starts ageing at 65
Loss of bladder control is more likely when you hit 65. Women are more vulnerable to bladder problems as, after the menopause, declining oestrogen levels make tissues in the urethra - the tube through which urine passes - thinner and weaker, reducing bladder support. Bladder capacity in an older adult generally is about half that of a younger person - about two cups in a 30-year-old and one cup in a 70-year-old.
LUNGS - Start ageing at 20
Lung capacity slowly starts to decrease from the age of 20. By the age of 40, some people are already experiencing breathlessness. This is partly because the muscles and the rib cage which control breathing stiffen up.
VOICE - Starts ageing at 65
Our voices become quieter and hoarser with age. The soft tissues in the voice box (larynx) weaken, affecting the pitch, loudness and quality of the voice.
A woman's voice may become huskier and lower in pitch, whereas a man's might become thinner and higher.
EYES - Start ageing at 40
Glasses are the norm for many over-40s as failing eyesight kicks in - usually long-sightedness, affecting our ability to see objects up close.
HEART - Starts ageing at 40
The heart pumps blood less effectively around the body as we get older. This is because blood vessels become less elastic, while arteries can harden or become blocked because of fatty deposits forming on the coronary arteries - caused by eating too much saturated fat. The blood supply to the heart is then reduced, resulting in painful angina. Men over 45 and women over 55 are at greater risk of a heart attack.
LIVER - Starts ageing at 70
This is the only organ in the body which seems to defy the aging process.
KIDNEYS - Starts ageing at 50
With kidneys, the number of filtering units (nephrons) that remove waste from the bloodstream starts to reduce in middle age.
PROSTATE - Starts ageing at 50
The prostate often becomes enlarged with age, leading to problems such as increased need to urinate, says Professor Roger Kirby, director of the Prostate Centre in London. This is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia and affects half of men over 50, but rarely those under 40. It occurs when the prostate absorbs large amounts of the male sex hormone testosterone, which increases the growth of cells in the prostate. A normal prostate is the size of a walnut, but the condition can increase this to the size of a tangerine.
BONES - Start ageing at 35
'Throughout our life, old bone is broken down by cells called osteoclasts and replaced by bone-building cells called osteoblasts - a process called bone turnover,' explains Robert Moots, professor of rheumatology at Aintree University Hospital in Liverpool. Children's bone growth is rapid - the skeleton takes just two years to renew itself completely. In adults, this can take ten years. Until our mid-20s, bone density is still increasing. But at 35 bone loss begins as part of the natural ageing process.
TEETH - Start ageing at 40
As we age, we produce less saliva, which washes away bacteria, so teeth and gums are more vulnerable to decay. Receding gums - when tissue is lost from gums around the teeth - is common in adults over 40.
MUSCLES - Start ageing at 30
Muscle is constantly being built up and broken down, a process which is well balanced in young adults. However, by the time we're 30, breakdown is greater than buildup, explains Professor Robert Moots. Once adults reach 40, they start to lose between 0.5 and 2 per cent of their muscle each year. Regular exercise can help prevent this.
HEARING - Starts ageing mid-50s
More than half of people over 60 lose hearing because of their age, according to the Royal National Institute for the Deaf.
SKIN - Starts ageing mid-20s
The skin starts to age naturally in your mid-20s.
TASTE AND SMELL - Start ageing at 60
We start out in life with about 10,000 taste buds scattered on the tongue. This number can halve later in life. After we turn 60, taste and smell gradually decline, partly as a result of the normal ageing process.
FERTILITY - Starts ageing at 35
Female fertility begins to decline after 35, as the number and quality of eggs in the ovaries start to fall. The lining of the womb may become thinner, making it less likely for a fertilised egg to take, and also creating an environment hostile to sperm.
HAIR - Starts ageing at 30
Male hair loss usually begins in the 30s. Hair is made in tiny pouches just under the skin's surface, known as follices. A hair normally grows from each follicle for about three years, is then shed, and a new hair grows.Most people will have some grey hair by the age of 35. When we are young, our hair is coloured by the pigments produced by cells in the hair follicle known as melanocytes.
JANGAN
Jangan terlalu susah hati dengan urusan dunia.
Akhirat itu lebih utama
dan hidup di sana lebih lama dan kekal selamanya
Jangan sengaja lewatkan solat.
Perbuatan ini Allah tidak suka.
Kalau tertidur lain cerita.
Jangan tidur selepas solat Subuh, nanti rezeki mahal(kerana berpagi-pagi itu membuka pintu berkat).
Jangan makan tanpa membaca BISMILLAH dan doa makan.
Nanti rezeki kita dikongsi syaitan.
Jangan keluar rumah tanpa niat untuk membuat kebaikan.
Takut-takut kita mati dalam perjalanan.
Jangan biarkan mata liar di perjalanan.
Nanti hati kita gelap diselaputi dosa.
Jangan menangguh taubat bila berbuat dosa kerana mati boleh datang bila-bila masa.
Jangan ego untuk meminta maaf pada ibu bapa dan sesama manusia kalau memang kita bersalah..
Jangan mengumpat sesama rakan taulan. Nanti rosak persahabatan kita hilang bahagia.
Jangan lupa bergantung kepada ALLAH dalam setiap kerja kita. Nanti kita sombong apabila berjaya. Kalau gagal kecewa pula.
Jangan bakhil untuk bersedekah.
Sedekah itu memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki kita.
Jangan banyak ketawa. Nanti mati jiwa.
Jangan biasakan berbohong, kerana ia adalah ciri-ciri munafik dan menghilangkan kasih orang kepada kita.
Jangan suka menganiaya manusia atau haiwan. Doa makhluk yang teraniaya cepat dimakbulkan ALLAH.
Jangan mempertikaikan kenapa ISLAM itu berkata JANGAN.
Sebab semuanya untuk keselamatan kita. ALLAH lebih tahu apa yang terbaik
untuk hamba ciptaanNya.
Akhirat itu lebih utama
dan hidup di sana lebih lama dan kekal selamanya
Jangan sengaja lewatkan solat.
Perbuatan ini Allah tidak suka.
Kalau tertidur lain cerita.
Jangan tidur selepas solat Subuh, nanti rezeki mahal(kerana berpagi-pagi itu membuka pintu berkat).
Jangan makan tanpa membaca BISMILLAH dan doa makan.
Nanti rezeki kita dikongsi syaitan.
Jangan keluar rumah tanpa niat untuk membuat kebaikan.
Takut-takut kita mati dalam perjalanan.
Jangan biarkan mata liar di perjalanan.
Nanti hati kita gelap diselaputi dosa.
Jangan menangguh taubat bila berbuat dosa kerana mati boleh datang bila-bila masa.
Jangan ego untuk meminta maaf pada ibu bapa dan sesama manusia kalau memang kita bersalah..
Jangan mengumpat sesama rakan taulan. Nanti rosak persahabatan kita hilang bahagia.
Jangan lupa bergantung kepada ALLAH dalam setiap kerja kita. Nanti kita sombong apabila berjaya. Kalau gagal kecewa pula.
Jangan bakhil untuk bersedekah.
Sedekah itu memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki kita.
Jangan banyak ketawa. Nanti mati jiwa.
Jangan biasakan berbohong, kerana ia adalah ciri-ciri munafik dan menghilangkan kasih orang kepada kita.
Jangan suka menganiaya manusia atau haiwan. Doa makhluk yang teraniaya cepat dimakbulkan ALLAH.
Jangan mempertikaikan kenapa ISLAM itu berkata JANGAN.
Sebab semuanya untuk keselamatan kita. ALLAH lebih tahu apa yang terbaik
untuk hamba ciptaanNya.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Doa untuk Teman2 ku
Doa Untuk Teman2ku
Ya Allah ... Panjangkanlah umur sahabatku. Kurniakanlah kesihatan yang baik padanya, terangi hatinya dengan nur pancaran iman. Tetapkanlah hatinya,
perluaskanlah rezekinya, dekatkanlah hatinya kepada kebaikan, jauhkanlah hatinya pada kejahatan, tunaikanlah hajatnya baik hajat dalam agama,dunia dan akh...irat .....
Ya Muhaimin ... Jika dia jatuh hati izinkanlah dia menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut pada-Mu agar tidak terjatuh dia dalam jurang cinta nafsu .... Jagalah hatinya agar tidak berpaling daripada melabuhkan hatinya pada hati-Mu. Jika dia rindu, rindukanlah dia pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalan-Mu.
Ya Allah ...
Jangan biarkan sahabatku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia kejalan-Mu.. jika kau halalkan aku merindui sahabatku, janganlah aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan daku pada cinta hakiki, rindu abadi dan kasih sejati hanya untuk-Mu.
Ya Allah ... kurniakanlah sahabatku kesenangan, ketenangan, kecemerlangan dan hidayah dari-Mu dalam menempuh cabaran serta liku-liku hidup di dunia dan di akhirat kelak ... Insya-AllahSee more
Ya Allah ... Panjangkanlah umur sahabatku. Kurniakanlah kesihatan yang baik padanya, terangi hatinya dengan nur pancaran iman. Tetapkanlah hatinya,
perluaskanlah rezekinya, dekatkanlah hatinya kepada kebaikan, jauhkanlah hatinya pada kejahatan, tunaikanlah hajatnya baik hajat dalam agama,dunia dan akh...irat .....
Ya Muhaimin ... Jika dia jatuh hati izinkanlah dia menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut pada-Mu agar tidak terjatuh dia dalam jurang cinta nafsu .... Jagalah hatinya agar tidak berpaling daripada melabuhkan hatinya pada hati-Mu. Jika dia rindu, rindukanlah dia pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalan-Mu.
Ya Allah ...
Jangan biarkan sahabatku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia kejalan-Mu.. jika kau halalkan aku merindui sahabatku, janganlah aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan daku pada cinta hakiki, rindu abadi dan kasih sejati hanya untuk-Mu.
Ya Allah ... kurniakanlah sahabatku kesenangan, ketenangan, kecemerlangan dan hidayah dari-Mu dalam menempuh cabaran serta liku-liku hidup di dunia dan di akhirat kelak ... Insya-AllahSee more
Sunday, March 21, 2010
WOrDs..!
How to be happy? Just think how happy you would be if you lost everything you have right now, and then got it back again.-Frances Rodman
"Allah answers prayers in three ways: He says yes and gives you what you want, He says no and gives you something better or He says wait and gives you the best in His own time".
Four things you can't recover: 1. The stone after the throw. 2. The word after it's said. 3. The occasion after it's missed. 4. The time after it's gone.
"Allah answers prayers in three ways: He says yes and gives you what you want, He says no and gives you something better or He says wait and gives you the best in His own time".
Four things you can't recover: 1. The stone after the throw. 2. The word after it's said. 3. The occasion after it's missed. 4. The time after it's gone.
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